Complete opposites wedding vows
Here’s the next set of awesome wedding vows in my series of amazing (de-identified) vows from one of my beautiful couples!
Some of my couples have written such incredible words of love and promise, and I thought they’d act as great inspiration for other couples who have no idea where to start when writing their own vows. While I provide all my couples with a vow pack that contains questions to get you started and loads of individual sentences that can be put together to create vows (and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that), the vows in this series all include the kind of personal touches that I think make wedding vows beautiful and genuine. To me, the most successful vows are personal, from the heart, and written in language the speaker would use in their everyday life.
Also remember: the word vow means promise. While we all love hearing all the reasons you love your partner, your vows are your chance to tell your partner all the things you are promising them for your lives together into the future. Don’t forget the promises!
A reminder: these vows are published to inspire you and provide you with some ideas for writing your vows. They’re not here so you can copy them word for word!
Also remember these don’t include the legally required vows – those words generally go at the start of these ones.
Party 1
It always amazes me how we are complete opposites from each other, yet it just works between us. We complement each other in every way. I love how we take care of each other, working together to achieve our dreams and always having each other’s backs. You are so considerate and caring, and it’s so nice to know there’s always someone on my side who’s looking out for me.
I’m hoping our lives together in the future will be much the same as they are now – we’ve been together for so long that I feel like we’ve ironed out all the annoying things in our relationship, and now everything just works so well.
I promise to look after you when you’re sick and get your heat pack in the middle of the night. I promise to mostly watch the TV shows you want to watch, as long as you let me play golf on Sunday mornings. Above all, I promise you my loyalty, trust, integrity, and love for as long as we live.
Party 2
I know I tell you every day, over and over, and it drives you crazy at times but I truly love you, and I will continue to love you every day.
You are the most hard working, motivated person I know. You make the most of every hour of every day, and I promise to help you to continue to do that.
I promise to try my best to listen, make you lots of yummy meals, have plenty of good reds and lots of laughs throughout our lives together.
You are my best friend. I will cheer you up when you have had a bad day, bag you when your footy team loses, force you to listen to all my favourite old school R and B songs, and be the best company I can be.
I choose you to be my husband, my family, and I thank you for picking a dork like me to be your wife.